Comments for Healing Universe http://healinguniverse.com Thu, 02 Feb 2012 09:21:19 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on The Aquarius Male by Manya http://healinguniverse.com/the-aquarius-male/#comment-3048 Manya Thu, 02 Feb 2012 09:21:19 +0000 http://healinguniverse.com/http:/healinguniverse.com/sample-page#comment-3048 Hi!! I am a Libra female from India. I have intense feelings for an aquarian male but am not sure about his feelings. He is sometimes very warm & caring with me and sometimes he turns totally cold & blunt. He would ignore me or not contact me for ages and if I do the same he would sometimes turn around ask whats wrong etc. He keeps mentioning that he does not cares for me or is not concerned about me if am not well but he would be around & give his suggestions. Plz help me as how can i ascertain what he feels or thinks about me? I love him & want to spend the rest of my life with him but am scared to tell this to him as he has already clarified it to me that he hates attachments and does not wants to get attached to anyone except his sisters & nephews. Is there any way I can win his heart? Please help.. Thank you.. Hi!!

I am a Libra female from India. I have intense feelings for an aquarian male but am not sure about his feelings. He is sometimes very warm & caring with me and sometimes he turns totally cold & blunt. He would ignore me or not contact me for ages and if I do the same he would sometimes turn around ask whats wrong etc.
He keeps mentioning that he does not cares for me or is not concerned about me if am not well but he would be around & give his suggestions.

Plz help me as how can i ascertain what he feels or thinks about me? I love him & want to spend the rest of my life with him but am scared to tell this to him as he has already clarified it to me that he hates attachments and does not wants to get attached to anyone except his sisters & nephews.

Is there any way I can win his heart? Please help..

Thank you..

]]> Comment on Neptune in Aquarius – The Relationship Ends by Julien http://healinguniverse.com/neptune-in-aquarius-the-relationship-ends/#comment-399 Julien Mon, 25 Jul 2011 18:55:20 +0000 http://healinguniverse.com/?p=1300#comment-399 Hi speaking of Aquarius, I was just reading you blog about the Aquarius male from 2008. and I have a dilemma. Im a bi-sexual capricorn male and I am completely enamored and smitten by a co-worker of mine who happens to be an aquarian. I look forward to going to work just to know that I'm going to see him, not only is he super attractive but he has a great personality. From what he's told me he said that he knows his astrological chart but doesnt really go by it too to much but I believe his moon sign may be Libra...I have to double check it was interesting to have an astrological conversation with someone who says he's straight....Here's the dilemma, he says he straight but I get a vibe that he maybe be bi sexual or gay. We were able to hang out recently and I had the chance to know him on a bit of a deeper level and I think thats when I started to fall in love with him, he shared with me a few intimate details one being that he is only and he has a longing for companionship. In a public discussion once we did discuss bi-sexuality and he said that he didnt believe in that, and that you are either one way or the other...I looked at him and convinced him that I was bi and I explained my situation. I think that the conversation was a total front for how he really feels. I think that this guy and I are on the right track to becoming really good friends and from what Ive read about aquarians I already stand because I am an exotic looking male with a great personality. My question is this again from what Ive read about aquarians it said that they are curious and like to try new things once? How do I as a Capricorn male trying to be cautious and unobvious how do I entice and seduce him for more? I already know that he is in intrigued by me, but how do I cross the boundary? I see so much potential for a relationship with him, we have so so much in common. Hi speaking of Aquarius, I was just reading you blog about the Aquarius male from 2008. and I have a dilemma. Im a bi-sexual capricorn male and I am completely enamored and smitten by a co-worker of mine who happens to be an aquarian. I look forward to going to work just to know that I’m going to see him, not only is he super attractive but he has a great personality. From what he’s told me he said that he knows his astrological chart but doesnt really go by it too to much but I believe his moon sign may be Libra…I have to double check it was interesting to have an astrological conversation with someone who says he’s straight….Here’s the dilemma, he says he straight but I get a vibe that he maybe be bi sexual or gay.

We were able to hang out recently and I had the chance to know him on a bit of a deeper level and I think thats when I started to fall in love with him, he shared with me a few intimate details one being that he is only and he has a longing for companionship. In a public discussion once we did discuss bi-sexuality and he said that he didnt believe in that, and that you are either one way or the other…I looked at him and convinced him that I was bi and I explained my situation. I think that the conversation was a total front for how he really feels.

I think that this guy and I are on the right track to becoming really good friends and from what Ive read about aquarians I already stand because I am an exotic looking male with a great personality. My question is this again from what Ive read about aquarians it said that they are curious and like to try new things once? How do I as a Capricorn male trying to be cautious and unobvious how do I entice and seduce him for more? I already know that he is in intrigued by me, but how do I cross the boundary? I see so much potential for a relationship with him, we have so so much in common.

]]> Comment on The Aquarius Male by Calypso http://healinguniverse.com/the-aquarius-male/#comment-128 Calypso Tue, 07 Jun 2011 23:49:01 +0000 http://healinguniverse.com/http:/healinguniverse.com/sample-page#comment-128 Hi all, I’m a Libra , and I have known this Aquarius guy for just one year. He is a single father of two kids. When we first met, is through a social platform. It was very fun, full of laughter, we met, we clicked with each other. But after the meet up, he seems to be a bit different. We only being in contact sometimes, and it is always me who will start the conversation. I have try to understand their nature of flirting with other girls. After we met, he keeps his flirting session with others. There is one girl whom I’ve seen her facebook to be really in love with him. Then i sent him a message saying that, maybe I’m not good enough for him, so I’ll better make a move. I was heartbroken at that moment to leave him, while i still need him. Then after a month, i wish him on his birthday. He reply to the wish and say thanks for the wishes. After that our relationship seems to restore to the normal condition. Then on Valentine’s day, i did not have the guts to wish him i love him cause i knew that i should not rush him in this kind of thing. But to my surprise, early morning on Valentine’s day, he wishes me and say that he loves me. I find it hard to believe and I’m so speechless. I couldn’t be more happier than that day. Months to months our relationship have ups and downs. Right now he seems busy flirting with others. When we have any issues, he seems to keep quiet, he didn’t sound a thing. He always keep quiet although i know he can say whatever he like. But when it comes to me, whenever we had a fight, he opt to keep quiet. Then a few weeks back, he seems to have a problem. I sent him a BBM saying that if he need someone to talk too, i will always be there for him or if he likes to keep it to himself, it will be fine for me. Then suddenly he deletes me from his BBM list and refuses to answer me when i ask if i did anything wrong when i sent him the BBM. He kept quite till now. I just don’t know what to do. I am deeply in love with him. Any advice? Thanks in advance. Hi all, I’m a Libra , and I have known this Aquarius guy for just one year. He is a single father of two kids. When we first met, is through a social platform. It was very fun, full of laughter, we met, we clicked with each other. But after the meet up, he seems to be a bit different. We only being in contact sometimes, and it is always me who will start the conversation. I have try to understand their nature of flirting with other girls. After we met, he keeps his flirting session with others. There is one girl whom I’ve seen her facebook to be really in love with him. Then i sent him a message saying that, maybe I’m not good enough for him, so I’ll better make a move. I was heartbroken at that moment to leave him, while i still need him. Then after a month, i wish him on his birthday. He reply to the wish and say thanks for the wishes. After that our relationship seems to restore to the normal condition. Then on Valentine’s day, i did not have the guts to wish him i love him cause i knew that i should not rush him in this kind of thing. But to my surprise, early morning on Valentine’s day, he wishes me and say that he loves me. I find it hard to believe and I’m so speechless. I couldn’t be more happier than that day. Months to months our relationship have ups and downs. Right now he seems busy flirting with others. When we have any issues, he seems to keep quiet, he didn’t sound a thing. He always keep quiet although i know he can say whatever he like. But when it comes to me, whenever we had a fight, he opt to keep quiet. Then a few weeks back, he seems to have a problem. I sent him a BBM saying that if he need someone to talk too, i will always be there for him or if he likes to keep it to himself, it will be fine for me. Then suddenly he deletes me from his BBM list and refuses to answer me when i ask if i did anything wrong when i sent him the BBM. He kept quite till now. I just don’t know what to do. I am deeply in love with him. Any advice? Thanks in advance.

]]> Comment on The Aquarius Male by Barrett http://healinguniverse.com/the-aquarius-male/#comment-127 Barrett Sun, 22 May 2011 18:50:11 +0000 http://healinguniverse.com/http:/healinguniverse.com/sample-page#comment-127 Hello G. You need to re-read the article very carefully and take some deep breaths. Then read what you wrote. You have allowed this Aquarian ex-boyfriend to manipulate you into thinking that you are inadequate and need help because of his problematic peronality and behavior. You are apologizing to him when he has emotionally agbused you -- and that is a form of domestic violence. WHy are you apologizing to him and sekeing his forgiveness when he is emotionally blocked off from you? WHile he may be brilliant and charming, he does not sound very mature and he sounds abusive in intimate relationships because he cannot and will not and express normal emotions. Specifically to answer your question -- YES all signs, houses, planets and aspects matter in oudual charts. Surely transiting Saturn in Libra is affecting him now if he has a Libra Ascendant, and if he has Venus in Leo, all teh transits that have occurred in Aquarius in the last decade have opposed his Venus. But do not make excuses for this cold, emotionally cruel Aquarius male. Look for a healthier relationship. Four years? You should be married. Four years? He gives you the silent treatment and doesn't call you back? Move on. Give him an ultimatum if you think he is still worth the time. But even before you do that, pack your emotional bags and (be prepared to) move on. Escape from Crazyland!! I see very little chance for a future with this man. Hello G. You need to re-read the article very carefully and take some deep breaths. Then read what you wrote. You have allowed this Aquarian ex-boyfriend to manipulate you into thinking that you are inadequate and need help because of his problematic peronality and behavior. You are apologizing to him when he has emotionally agbused you — and that is a form of domestic violence. WHy are you apologizing to him and sekeing his forgiveness when he is emotionally blocked off from you? WHile he may be brilliant and charming, he does not sound very mature and he sounds abusive in intimate relationships because he cannot and will not and express normal emotions. Specifically to answer your question — YES all signs, houses, planets and aspects matter in oudual charts. Surely transiting Saturn in Libra is affecting him now if he has a Libra Ascendant, and if he has Venus in Leo, all teh transits that have occurred in Aquarius in the last decade have opposed his Venus. But do not make excuses for this cold, emotionally cruel Aquarius male. Look for a healthier relationship. Four years? You should be married. Four years? He gives you the silent treatment and doesn’t call you back? Move on. Give him an ultimatum if you think he is still worth the time. But even before you do that, pack your emotional bags and (be prepared to) move on. Escape from Crazyland!! I see very little chance for a future with this man.

]]> Comment on The Aquarius Male by g http://healinguniverse.com/the-aquarius-male/#comment-126 g Sat, 21 May 2011 21:58:54 +0000 http://healinguniverse.com/http:/healinguniverse.com/sample-page#comment-126 Barrett, I also found your article to be very true. I was wondering, how important are the other aspects of the birth chart in how "aquarius" a man can be? My ex boyfriend (of three days) has a Libra rising and a Venus in Leo. How important are those? I hope that you see this question because I noticed that this article is a few years old....You were so accurate and insightful that I would love to hear what you have to say. We broke up after four years because I have emotional outbursts and frequently give him problems for not calling back soon enough, etc...I have a lot of anxiety and I take it out on him, really whenever I think about it I'm fine with him being alone when he needs to, or not available 24 hours a day. I also have a nine year old, and they love each other and are very attached. We do not live together(I live in the suburbs and my grandparents live with my daughter and me, he lives twenty minutes away in the city), and I want to become less anxious and less prone to take out my dark side on him. I really don't mind that he wants to be alone and read or think, and I want to show him that, but I'm afraid this time might be too late. I hope he hasn't made up his mind for good, since we were working through it for so long and I have made improvements over the years consciously. I always apologize afterwards too, but this time my apology didn't change his mind. Otherwise we love each other, and nothing else bad has happened. I want him to be in my life, he's my best friend and I want to be his lover too. I know that I can accept him as he is in my heart, and I need help with general anxiety but think that that will lessen the more that focus on myself. I love him and I miss him. What are the best things that I can do to show him that I can relax? I haven't called him since we broke up, and this time he asked for his keys. I really want to know how to show him i'm sorry. Barrett, I also found your article to be very true. I was wondering, how important are the other aspects of the birth chart in how “aquarius” a man can be? My ex boyfriend (of three days) has a Libra rising and a Venus in Leo. How important are those? I hope that you see this question because I noticed that this article is a few years old….You were so accurate and insightful that I would love to hear what you have to say. We broke up after four years because I have emotional outbursts and frequently give him problems for not calling back soon enough, etc…I have a lot of anxiety and I take it out on him, really whenever I think about it I’m fine with him being alone when he needs to, or not available 24 hours a day. I also have a nine year old, and they love each other and are very attached. We do not live together(I live in the suburbs and my grandparents live with my daughter and me, he lives twenty minutes away in the city), and I want to become less anxious and less prone to take out my dark side on him. I really don’t mind that he wants to be alone and read or think, and I want to show him that, but I’m afraid this time might be too late. I hope he hasn’t made up his mind for good, since we were working through it for so long and I have made improvements over the years consciously. I always apologize afterwards too, but this time my apology didn’t change his mind. Otherwise we love each other, and nothing else bad has happened. I want him to be in my life, he’s my best friend and I want to be his lover too. I know that I can accept him as he is in my heart, and I need help with general anxiety but think that that will lessen the more that focus on myself. I love him and I miss him. What are the best things that I can do to show him that I can relax? I haven’t called him since we broke up, and this time he asked for his keys. I really want to know how to show him i’m sorry.

]]> Comment on The Aquarius Male by Rohit http://healinguniverse.com/the-aquarius-male/#comment-125 Rohit Wed, 11 May 2011 16:51:33 +0000 http://healinguniverse.com/http:/healinguniverse.com/sample-page#comment-125 Barrett and Nicole, Thanks for your advice. What is lacking strongly in me is quite clear, in one word, "emotions". And I say stongly because I do have emotions and understand them but they just aren't strong enough to be accepted. I am beginning to bring around that change in me. Look at life, relationships, friendships differently, not analytically, but with emotion, compassion, empathy, and probably the most critical of 'em - committment. It' not going to be my way or the highway, it's going to be our way. Barrett and Nicole, Thanks for your advice. What is lacking strongly in me is quite clear, in one word, “emotions”. And I say stongly because I do have emotions and understand them but they just aren’t strong enough to be accepted. I am beginning to bring around that change in me. Look at life, relationships, friendships differently, not analytically, but with emotion, compassion, empathy, and probably the most critical of ‘em – committment. It’ not going to be my way or the highway, it’s going to be our way.

]]> Comment on The Aquarius Male by Nicole http://healinguniverse.com/the-aquarius-male/#comment-124 Nicole Mon, 09 May 2011 13:52:15 +0000 http://healinguniverse.com/http:/healinguniverse.com/sample-page#comment-124 Rohit & William- As each of you are on totally opposite sides of the Aquarius mindsetI have a comment for each of you. I have dated an Aquarius-and in my opinion they are the most tricky of the male zodiac signs. Rohit-you state that females need to get to know your sign better? The thing is we do, however it is not just us that needs to be in touch with you, you need to be in touch with you. Your feelings and lack of expression of them mainly. The world would be far more harmonius if you could share just the slightest bit with any/all the woman you are dating. It is calld compassion and empathy. William-I am happy to see that you finally came to the realization that the woman you have hurt is the woman you have loved all along. I hope she forgives you for your mistreatment of her and that once you do have her, you do not let her go. Woman are creatures who like to be cared for, if only by the right person, so if she does let you into her world again, you better get on your hands and knees and thank her. And actually follow through on your words. I could go on and on, about Aquarius men, however, I will not. I am not bitter, just baffled by their behaivor. Lessons have been learned and I hope for the two of you you each learn yours. Good luck! Rohit & William- As each of you are on totally opposite sides of the Aquarius mindsetI have a comment for each of you. I have dated an Aquarius-and in my opinion they are the most tricky of the male zodiac signs. Rohit-you state that females need to get to know your sign better? The thing is we do, however it is not just us that needs to be in touch with you, you need to be in touch with you. Your feelings and lack of expression of them mainly. The world would be far more harmonius if you could share just the slightest bit with any/all the woman you are dating. It is calld compassion and empathy. William-I am happy to see that you finally came to the realization that the woman you have hurt is the woman you have loved all along. I hope she forgives you for your mistreatment of her and that once you do have her, you do not let her go. Woman are creatures who like to be cared for, if only by the right person, so if she does let you into her world again, you better get on your hands and knees and thank her. And actually follow through on your words. I could go on and on, about Aquarius men, however, I will not. I am not bitter, just baffled by their behaivor. Lessons have been learned and I hope for the two of you you each learn yours. Good luck!

]]> Comment on Lunar Eclipse in Aquarius – August 5, 2009 by Barrett http://healinguniverse.com/lunar-eclipse-in-aquarius-august-5-2009/#comment-169 Barrett Mon, 09 May 2011 10:15:27 +0000 http://healinguniverse.com/http:/healinguniverse.com/sample-page#comment-169 Having Aquarius in your 1st house is challenging, with Uranus, Neptune and Chiron having ridden through lately (and Neptune is still in Aquarius). Order a transit report ($15) to see where your aspects are right now and get a brief report or order a longer consultation ($275, send me an email) and we can talk about your specific issues and how you can best handle things. Having Aquarius in your 1st house is challenging, with Uranus, Neptune and Chiron having ridden through lately (and Neptune is still in Aquarius). Order a transit report ($15) to see where your aspects are right now and get a brief report or order a longer consultation ($275, send me an email) and we can talk about your specific issues and how you can best handle things.

]]> Comment on Who’s Your Daddy? (Saturn in Libra for Aries) by Barrett http://healinguniverse.com/whos-your-daddy-saturn-in-libra-for-aries-2/#comment-168 Barrett Mon, 09 May 2011 10:10:33 +0000 http://healinguniverse.com/http:/healinguniverse.com/sample-page#comment-168 I empathize! However, I must admit, as harsh as a Saturn transit can be, there is a lesson about something in them. A person with a Sun in Aries would find this excruciating unless they chose to knuckle under and do some very hard physical work or other physical expression during this time. Saturn rewards hard work. If you are getitng nothing but frustration out of a Saturn transit, it is because you are resisting and fighting; you are refusing to accept and learn the lesson or mental work. A person who has Saturn transiting their 10th house and has put in long hours and good faith effort for their carer gets rewarded by Saturn transits with promotions, money and career-related success. If you are having difficulties, order a consultation and we can examine how you can best handle the Saturn transit you are experiencing. I empathize! However, I must admit, as harsh as a Saturn transit can be, there is a lesson about something in them. A person with a Sun in Aries would find this excruciating unless they chose to knuckle under and do some very hard physical work or other physical expression during this time. Saturn rewards hard work. If you are getitng nothing but frustration out of a Saturn transit, it is because you are resisting and fighting; you are refusing to accept and learn the lesson or mental work. A person who has Saturn transiting their 10th house and has put in long hours and good faith effort for their carer gets rewarded by Saturn transits with promotions, money and career-related success. If you are having difficulties, order a consultation and we can examine how you can best handle the Saturn transit you are experiencing.

]]> Comment on The Aquarius Male by Barrett http://healinguniverse.com/the-aquarius-male/#comment-121 Barrett Sun, 08 May 2011 19:19:15 +0000 http://healinguniverse.com/http:/healinguniverse.com/sample-page#comment-121 William, To use your phrase, what can I write? Four years? That is a lot of emotional unhealthiness. Because of your age, I can likely safely assume you are in your Saturn Return (in Libra) and marriage to this woman you love is the thing you are supposed to do to demonstrate the transition to manhood/adulthood. Clearly you know the problem and it sounds like you have badly hurt this woman you love. Sometimes it is not possible to get someone to trust you again after you have hurt them. Sometimes you must work hard and long to earn their trust again. If the woman is no longer in love with you, maybe you can and maybe you can't re-kindle that love. Why should she believe you? If you really love her, why do you not want her to be happy, even if it is with your cousin? Five suggestions: ONE: stop your fake association with the manipulative girl. Why are you fooling around with a "girl" when you know you have someone in your life you love who is a "woman"? TWO: stop lying to your family about her and other things. THREE: ask the woman you love to talk to you then BEG, long and hard. Dignity has no place here. You acted like a dog (which you admit). You need to be willing to do anything to win her back, no matter how long it takes. FOUR: if you get her back, bring her to meet your family and stop lying to them. FIVE: marry her as immediately as she would like and circumstances allow. Four years is absurd and cruel. If you have the ability to win this woman back, you need to make every day of the rest of her life a blessed one where she never, ever has reason to regret you again. If you are telling the truth about marrying her tomorrow, then marry her tomorrow. Otherwise you are lying again and being the kind of person you described. If you won't do those five things, let her be happy with your cousin. William, To use your phrase, what can I write? Four years? That is a lot of emotional unhealthiness. Because of your age, I can likely safely assume you are in your Saturn Return (in Libra) and marriage to this woman you love is the thing you are supposed to do to demonstrate the transition to manhood/adulthood. Clearly you know the problem and it sounds like you have badly hurt this woman you love. Sometimes it is not possible to get someone to trust you again after you have hurt them. Sometimes you must work hard and long to earn their trust again. If the woman is no longer in love with you, maybe you can and maybe you can’t re-kindle that love. Why should she believe you? If you really love her, why do you not want her to be happy, even if it is with your cousin? Five suggestions: ONE: stop your fake association with the manipulative girl. Why are you fooling around with a “girl” when you know you have someone in your life you love who is a “woman”? TWO: stop lying to your family about her and other things. THREE: ask the woman you love to talk to you then BEG, long and hard. Dignity has no place here. You acted like a dog (which you admit). You need to be willing to do anything to win her back, no matter how long it takes. FOUR: if you get her back, bring her to meet your family and stop lying to them. FIVE: marry her as immediately as she would like and circumstances allow. Four years is absurd and cruel. If you have the ability to win this woman back, you need to make every day of the rest of her life a blessed one where she never, ever has reason to regret you again. If you are telling the truth about marrying her tomorrow, then marry her tomorrow. Otherwise you are lying again and being the kind of person you described. If you won’t do those five things, let her be happy with your cousin.

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